I realize that this post is old but I just stumbled onto it and would have to agree with everything you said. I feel the same way. I think the reason we “the good guys” get fucked all the time is because of the assholes out there, but even with that being the case it seems like they go right back to the assholes. I can’t really explain the reason for this because I don’t know it myself. I guess I can just assume that they get fucked over by assholes, assume we’re an asshole and want nothing to do with us? But I have noticed most of the non-good guys, lol, do nothing but lie their way into a relationship. That is just my opinion, sorry for being so late on the post!