I feel like the most stupid man on Earth. In less than 48 hours she did the same thing she had done 7 months ago. The same thing that made me decide to stop talking to her. What should I do now? Spend more 7 months without speaking to her again? or simply ignore? nah, I can’t ignore it, sorry!
The thing is I know that she doesn’t do on purpose, but it hurts the same. She thinks that her acts don’t have consequences. But they do have! BIG consequences! It’s if like she didn’t care at all… She wasn’t even capable of calling me to say “I’m sorry”. She knows she is wrong, she knows she hurt me and now she won’t call me. She’s too embarrassed for not being able to do things correctly.
I honestly would like to understand what goes on her mind. Probably, instead of being hurt and feeling shit, I would try to help her. Yeah, that would be nice, but won’t happen. I know her, she’s like me: stubborn as a mule!
From my experience these kind of people either dont care or dont want to care. Sometimes they are so busy with their own lives that they forget the importance of others. Other people simply have a lower priority.
Solution to living with this? Don’t care as well! Really, try it! I’ve been doing to do this for a while and it works great for me: I simply do everything right and by the book, the total professional. So, when something or someone sabotages my doings/feelings at least I can say that it is not my fault. and move on.
hi fernando, feel sad while reading this post. if she dont care about how you feel then that would be something. anyway its a few weeks since u psot this and i am kinda late.hehehehe…peace